If you have young children, you’ve already thought a lot about raising your kids, ranging from their school and activities to their religious upbringing. But have you thought about who would raise them if you — and your spouse if you’re married — should suddenly pass away? Could your children be forced to live with family members they don’t know or be subject to a custody battle? Thankfully, you can avoid a worst-case scenario with advance estate planning.

With A Will, There’s A Way

The biggest step you can take to ensure your intentions are met is to specifically name a guardian in your will. If you have a will in place but haven’t provided for a guardian for your minor children, have your lawyer amend it as soon as possible. This can be done easily enough by adding a clause or, if warranted, through drafting a new will.

Be sure to list all the names and birthdates of your children. In addition, you might include a provision for any future children in the event you pass away before your will is amended again. Your attorney will draft the required language.

What happens if you don’t name a guardian for minor children in your will? The choice will be left to the courts to decide based on the facts. In some cases, the court could choose a family member over a friend you would have chosen. This could lead to subsequent legal disputes with the kids caught in limbo.

Factors That Can Influence Your Choice To Name A Guardian

There’s no definitive ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ choice for a guardian. Every situation is different. But there are several factors that may sway your decision:

Location. It’s often preferable to name a guardian who lives close to your current location as opposed to someone residing thousands of miles away. The transition will be easier for the kids if they aren’t uprooted.

Age. A guardian’s age is often overlooked but can be a crucial factor. Your parents may have provided you with a great upbringing, but they may now be too old to raise young children. Plus, your parents may experience health issues that could adversely affect the family dynamic.

Environment. Do the guardian’s views on child raising align with your own? If not, your intentions may be defeated. Consider such aspects as education, religion, politics, and other lifestyle choices.

Living circumstances. No one can fully project into the future, but at least you can take current circumstances into account. For instance, if you’re inclined to select a sibling as guardian, does he or she already have kids? Is he or she single, married, or in a relationship? You don’t want your child to be thrust into chaos when a safer choice may be available.

Choose the best person for the job after discussing it with the individual and designate an alternate if that person can’t fulfill the duties. Frequently, parents will name a married couple who are relatives or close friends. If you take this approach, ensure that both spouses have legal authority to act on the child’s behalf.

Coming To A Final Decision

Be sure to take time to review your choice of guardian in coordination with other aspects of your estate plan. This decision shouldn’t be made hastily. Contact us with questions.